Reconfirm and enhance you knowledge on positive attitudes. The following five questions will help you.
1. Am I happy being where I am today?
This is a trick question without a standard answer, but knowing how to deal with it is crucial. Believing you are happy can actually increase your happiness and contentment and give you the confidence and positive attitude for anything you wish to achieve. So do not simply wish to be happy, but come out and believe that you really are. Enjoy life and be thankful for the little things in life and see what a difference it makes.
2. Am I appealing to the opposite sex?
Even if you do not have an answer for this, it shouldn’t stop you from doing anything you wish. So start shaping up by changing your dressing style or hairdo, your attitude towards people or life, and do it as if you were appealing, and it shall conduce to your benefit. Remember what matters most is how well you can carry it off rather than exactly what you are trying to carry off.
3. How much could I have?
Operative here is not a standard that could define having too much or having too little, but rather how the question of how badly you really need or want it. This boils down to asking yourself what, and how much, you are willing to work and sacrifice for something you think you want. If you really are willing to sweat for it, no matter what, work towards what you have set your heart on and the sky is the limit.
4. What motivates me?
Human desires are endless, and there are infinite variations to the things that make people happy. If you do not know what drives you or sets your pulse racing, approach life like a buffet service. Try everything piece by piece until you locate your favorite dish.
5. What Really Makes You Tick?
Understanding what really makes you tick is not only being able to define your goal but also the path you seek to chart towards that goal. So identify what you really want and what you are willing to do for it. It’s all about knowing yourself. Own your limits and do your own cost benefit analysis rather than any very profoundly philosophic quest.
Think about these five questions, and you will be well on your way to a positive attitude!
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